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Jake Wiskerchen's avatar

I echo MIchael's comment and will add something, which is that instant gratification not only has eroded patience, it has also eroded distress tolerance writ large.

Distress tolerance is required for reading long-form text and even long-form audio, such as podcasts. I have what I would consider a good attention span (always have, I was a voracious reader since like age 6), but have even found myself so eager to consume information in a quick manner that I listen or watch content at 1.5x or 1.75x. And it's not just me, it's my similarly aged colleagues and ripples up the generational ladder as well.

Amazon deliveries, Door Dash, streaming services, on-demand [whatever], have all helped create this mess, probably beginning with frozen TV dinners and the VCR. It's not just the internet and 15-second sound bites, but our entire society that has accelerated to the point that we no longer enjoy the process, but instead just want to leap to the outcome. For what it's worth, I believe that this entitlement has led to a lack of gratitude as well, which has a whole bag of problems associated with it as well.

Furthermore, it is showing up in spades across the counseling realm in clinically significnant ways. Unless we get Gen X parents (the original participation trophy kids who were taught to avoid distress) to change their ways, subsequent generations will continue down this path, yielding an entire society full of Cluster B-looking adults who throw tantrums when they don't get their way.

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Michael Gentle's avatar

Anything that is not natural and requires effort, like reading, will always be prey to distraction (i.e. entertainment), to which children will naturally turn because it requires little effort.

Before the internet, reading for pleasure was itself a distraction. In other words, it’s what you turned to when you had time to kill or wanted to get lost in a good story. So, reading for pleasure became a habit (as I discuss in my book, Life Before the Internet).

Then along came TV (and before that, radio), probably the first major form of distraction from reading. But its effect was limited because you could only watch TV at home at certain times, which meant that reading still had a place in children’s lives.

But the arrival of the smartphone and social media, which essentially put entertainment in one’s pocket, signalled the ultimate in distraction. Try competing against that with reading books – good luck!

So the culprit is hiding in plain sight – it’s the smartphone in Gen Z’s pocket, which they grew up with, and which gradually weaned them off reading.

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