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David Stafford's avatar

I've found that many people resist the smart phone theory because it would mean examining their own cellphone habits. It's hard to ask addicts to be impartial about their addictions.

Laura Wiley Haynes's avatar

A smartphone likely has an even more powerful effect due to another, earlier change: full time group daycare in early life (newborns)-- which only began in late 1980s and rapidly worked its way up to a third of kids. Emotional self regulation, internal locus of control, agency, sense of self are developed in toddlerhood via modeling, in relationship. Relational intimacy & trust (attachment) with your mom is later a great shield from the slings and arrows of bullies, etc. (Dr Gordon Neufeld's "place to cry.") Kids w this ballast can deal with painful experiences, including adolescence, in pro-social ways.

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